Candy Rant!

I’ve been on a mini rampage lately in regard to the amount of candy handed out in our schools, and this Valentine’s Day was no exception. With the increasing publicity on the ill-effects of sugar you would hope that the first place for change would be with our children. Why? Because they are ity-bity, developing humans, laying their foundation for health in the future. They are not immune to the negative consequences of poor nutrition and they are ultra-vulnerable to marketing, social pressures, and addictive desires!!!

 

No parent wants their child to feel like the weirdo who isn’t allowed to have treats (myself included), but the line has to be drawn somewhere. We aren’t talking about a party or two a year where fun tasting foods are part of celebration. No, it’s all year long! There’s always a “reason” for junk food. There’s always something to “celebrate” – including correct answers in the classroom!! Say what? That’s right. Ninety percent of the time my kindergartener gets off the bus with candy in his hand for participating in class!

 

What’s a parent to do? Aside from voicing concern with the school system, how can we teach our little ones to make decent choices when so much is stacked against them? One of the methods we have used in our family when mass amounts of candy end up in our house, such as after Trick-or-treating or when their Valentine’s Day boxes come home, is allowing them to choose their favorite few to keep.

 

 

This presents it’s own challenge when Willy Wonka’s, magically color changing, Fun Dip is in the mix! A brightly colored wrapper with whimsical writing and mysterious wonder inside is sure to grab your child’s attention. It grabbed mine as well, but not in a good way. Let’s take a look at the back of the package.

 

 

Willy Wonka himself (who doesn’t love Willy Wonka!) tells us that “tremendous things are in store for you! Many tasty treats await you! Inside this scrumdiddlyuptious package you will find MYSTIC and MARVELOUS SURPRISES that will entrance, intrigue & delight you BEYOND MEASURE. So don’t just STAND THERE with your mouth open. Go On. Feed your imagination.”

 

Can you blame any child for wanting to “feed their imagination”? They are not worried that the “marvelous surprises” are made up of “dextrose, maltodextrin, citric acid, calcium stearate, artificial flavors, blue 1, blue 1 lake, and yellow 5”! But, I am!! What part of that ingredient list is going to support and nourish them? What part of this “treat” is even considered FOOD?! And how can Mom, telling two small children that this is a poor choice, compete with Mr. Wonka himself? Telling a kindergartener that “food dyes may be linked to numerous forms of cancer, along with hyperactivity and other behavior problems in children” (link) will likely get you nowhere. Or will it?

 

I do believe that our children listen to us more than we think they do. And while they may not make the choice we hope they do every time, I think having the conversation in a non-threatening way is definitely worth it. BOTH my boys brought home this very package of Fun Dip in their Valentine’s Box this year and both packages ended up in the garbage after a brief discussion about taste and how our bodies feel in response to certain “foods.” I’m not going to lie. It wasn’t the persuasion from Mom that they were hoping for. And I’m not naive enough to think that they won’t ever try Fun Dip (in fact, I allowed them a lick last year so that it didn’t become a highly sought after forbidden taste).

 

We often talk comparisons in our house. And while we do so, we always discuss how our bodies feel!!

• “How do you feel after a few licks of Fun Dip?” I just want more. “Do you reach a satisfied feeling at some point?” No. “How long does that ‘yummy’ sweet taste last?” Not long!

• “Compare that to a paleo brownie. How do you feel after eating one of those?” Full and more satisfied (in their own words).

• “What’s in Fun Dip?” Sugar and fake stuff (after we read the ingredients). “What’s in paleo brownies?” Almond butter, coconut butter, dark chocolate, eggs, coconut flour and some real maple syrup (the boys have helped make them many times). “Which do you think has more nutrients in it?” The brownies. Ya, I’d rather have the paleo brownies.

 

And that’s what the boys enjoyed this Valentine’s Day.

 

The rest of the boys’ meals looked this:

Breakfast: heart shaped paleo pancakes, Pete’s Paleo bacon, sauerkraut over greens and a few berries.

School lunch: Applegate Farms grass-fed hot dogs, sliced red peppers and carrots, strawberries, cashews and plantain chips, 70% dark chocolate. I was going for a naturally red look.

Dinner: (this was actually my plate, but the boys ate the same thing, just smaller portions) – Grass-fed filet, sweet potato with grass-fed butter, and brussels sprouts.

 

While I’m sure a lollipop snuck in here or there, I also know that they were mostly filled with nutritious foods (and we avoided the color-changing Fun Dip this time around).

 

We’ve also initiated a trade in option at our house so that the boys can switch out a piece of candy that they bring home from school or a party for some coins. They are at the age where working and saving up for a specific toy is of great interest to them. Sometimes they are willing to sacrifice something “good” for something “better.”

 

Does your family have any strategies for keeping the ever-growing sugar monster at rest?

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Comments (6)

  • Cullen 4 years ago Reply

    Oh Shannon this is a GREAT read! I had the same Fun Dip come home in my son’s Valentine’s Day box and we had a very similar conversation. Thank you for the link on the food dyes. I love how you compared the Fun Dip to the paleo brownies.

    My son is very into “what is good for his body and what isn’t.” He will constantly ask me “is this good for my body Mommy?” I will tell him if it is or isn’t and the reason behind it. Every once in a while the sweet stuff is okay but it’s not something that we want to fill our bodies with on a daily basis. I love your idea about when children come home from school with a candy reward (I can’t stand the candy reward or food reward for good behavior) to exchange it for some coins.

    Thank you for this post!
    Cullen 🙂

  • primalpeak 4 years ago Reply

    Thanks, Cullen! The coin exchange could be looked at as a form of bribery, but I like how it can teach them about sacrificing something for something else and continue the lessons on money.

  • Nancy Tallman 4 years ago Reply

    Shannon
    Great post and justifiable rant. I wish I could tell you it gets better when the kids are older, but it seems to get even worse. Why would the teachers want a room full of hyperactive kids bonking on sugar? There are candy machines at the middle school and one teacher sells donuts to raise money for a school club. Celebrations of honor roll are ice cream parties. I agree that we are teaching kids to reward themselves with sugar. Your little guys are more knowledgable about food than most teachers. It’s too bad they are being “tested” constantly at school.

    primalpeak 4 years ago Reply

    Thanks, Nancy!
    You put that well – yes, my boys know a great deal about food, but “they are being ‘tested’ constantly at school.”! I feel like the treats are so easy to use as bribery that even well intentioned people give in to using them. Ugh!

  • Jen 9 months ago Reply

    This was great! I think that I will be exchanging candy for coins at Easter and beyond and I am going to try those paleo brownies. I have just begun my journey to primal lifestyle… moving my kids that way is tough. Cheerios are so convenient and loved. How do I introduce sauerkraut?!

    primalpeak 9 months ago Reply

    Hi Jen! Congrats on moving into a primal lifestyle;-) Yes, transitioning the kids is TOUGH! I get it. Remember that small “wins” and baby steps are important and start with the foods that they already like that fit within the guidelines you are aiming for as a family. As far as sauerkraut, I found that introducing a pickled flavor of it was helpful with my kids because they love pickles. “Farmhouse Culture” has a garlic dill pickle flavor of sauerkraut that my boys really like. We also intro-d with a good quality sausage or hot dog (Applegate Organics) because the combination to them was a winner. Start with just a small amount. Hope this helps! Keep up the good work;-) – Shannon

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